Friday, January 19, 2018

Listen to the eyes.

Feel awkward to read?

But that is what we need. We have an excellent perception power to read the face by simple glance but we generally ignore it. If we  try to  see in the eyes of a person to search for the true feelings,  the chances are that your search may become a futile exercise. 

Seeing is an intentional activity.  If the person concerned notices that you are trying to probe into his inner feelings, he generally  hides his feelings in defensive mood as soon as  he becomes conscious of our search.

But noting a casual glance is more effective in understanding like  listening to a sound. Listening is natural and grasping sensation without any feedback or response.  It lingers in the mind.

When I say, ‘Listen to the eyes’ I mean to say that don’t ignore casual face reading,  but preserve it in your memory attentively like a whispering sound in the background. 

You can ponder over it at any time in future and you will find the undisclosed treasure of feelings contained in that otherwise casual glance which you can relate to behaviour or pattern of response.

Once you master in this art, you can become mind reader and respond accordingly.




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